28 weeks...and counting

Today marks 10 weeks of bed rest since Oct. 20th.  We have come a LONG way, baby(s)!  I am counting down about 6 more weeks of bed rest then I can do a little dance...a little one! :)  Then, maybe the babies will hold on a week or so after that.  Ahhh...wouldn't that be perfect?   

I am getting super excited about getting the nursery organized and my house in order before the babies' birthday.  Of course, all I can do is lay back and 'bark orders.'  (Luke calls me 'mission control'...which next week he may call me "walk and flop" like Jack called Amanda...walk and flop in a chair. Still makes me laugh, Amanda! Sorry!) I don't mean to be bossy but it is my ONLY way to get things done...without getting up and doing myself.  (I know, I am a little controlling.  I am sorry!)  Next time ANYONE is on bed rest, I will be the first one at their door listening to all their orders.  I owe everyone by this point! 

So, has 10 weeks been that bad ? No, not really!  It has gone by fast!  I am just wearing out all my help before the babies get here.  :)  However, I think it will be a little more exciting to come visit me when I have two precious newborns at home. 

Next Appt: Tuesday, January 4th- 8:30

Christmas Update

We had a fabulous, relaxed Christmas.  The only thing Luke, Hannah, and I missed was Christmas Eve Church service which is always a nice reminder of the true meaning of Christmas.  However, we enjoyed mom and Ralph's company on Christmas Eve and had yummy fajitas.  Hannah got to open her gifts from JanJan and Pop and she was THRILLED!  Mom and Hannah made reindeer food and set out food for Santa.  We read the Night Before Christmas and then off to bed.  What a BIG girl! 

Marley got a new outfit.  New Moxie doll

Sharing Santa's Milk

Christmas is so much fun with a 5 year old!  Everything is so real and magical!  Hannah was in bed by 9 and I think daddy woke her up at 7AM because HE was so excited.  Also, mommy didn't sleep well in anticipation of Hannah's reaction to Santa. :)   Hannah didn't ask for much from Santa but he treated her well.  Papaw came over to share in the excitement with gifts in tow! 

Marley and new baby boy "Andy"

Twins stroller just like Mommy's

I made one trip (4 miles) to Gran and Papas house on Christmas morning and quickly sat in the recliner.  We had breakfast and enjoyed opening more packages. :) 
We rested (a little) through the afternoon. Aunt Jaclyn was willing to help with Hannah while Luke picked up the Christmas explosion in our house.  It is amazing how domestic he has become. ;)   Then, the Anderson, Fites, Sandlins, Aunt Amy and Diana came to our house for tamales and more gifts!  It was a fun and easy night for me as everyone visited, cooked, worked, cleaned around me in my chair.  Thank you all for coming to our house to celebrate Christmas with us.  It meant the world to us!  Luke is becoming quite the hostess. 

So, I have spent three holidays in the chair and working on one more...NYE.  Jamie, Chloe, Kline, Shane-O, Grammy, JanJan, and Pop are coming to celebrate NYE with us!  I am looking forward to seeing them!  I am not sure if I will make it to midnight but I know we will have a GREAT time!

Muchas Gracias this week to:
Pastor Chuck and Ms. Kathy-Chicken soup and prayer.  :)  Made my day so much brighter! 
Uncle Joe, Roslyn, and Aunt Det-Mexican Stack, Poblano peppers
JanJan and Pop-Fajitas and fixings
Staci and Thomas Ratliff-Gumbo, French Bread, Choc chip cookies
Uncle Bill and Aunt Sally Ratliff-Tallerene, Lemon Chiffon pie
Audra Pennington- chicken and rice meal. :) and keeping Hannah
Carol-helping with Hannah on Monday, laundry, errands
Sara and Shane Calhoun-Fried fish dinner
DAD/Papaw-gettin groceries, takin Hannah to movie, errands :)

JanJan and Aunt Katie- Organizing 4 toy closets, play room, and Hannahs bed room!  How did 10 bags of trash come out of all those toys ?  ...I am SO glad to have all that done!  Also, thank u, Katie, for shampooing my rugs and carpets!  I feel so refreshed!  What a WONDERFUL treat! 

Thank you all for praying for us daily!  I think I will go the distance!  These miracle babies are pretty strong!  Just need them to stay in their little home a little longer!  Away we GROW!

27 weeks and I am still alive!

What a week! I had an appt on Monday and Tuesday which was nice bc I got to leave the house two days in a row. However, I picked up the stomach flu. Boy was it awful...I felt like I was dying! I haven't been sick like that in years. Mommy just doesn't get sick!

The good thing is it only lasted 24hrs and we had lots of help. Luke was a nervous wreck most of the day. He was able to chill a little bit once I got medicine in my system and we realized that it had nothing to do with pregnancy or the babies.  Janjan and hannah hung around the house for a bit to make sure I was alive. At lunch, Papaw got Hannah out of house so she wouldn't be exposed to so many germs. (The night prior she had slept with me and absorbed the virus. So it was pretty much inevitable.) Janjan took Hannah home with her last night and she was only sick twice so we are keeping our fingers crossed today. I don't want a sick baby girl or sick daddy at Christmas!

Aside from that, the babies and I are ok! I have managed to keep down fluids, scrambled eggs, toast, bagel this morning. Praise God! I'm a little weak but all I have to do is rest.

Baby update

Sonogram showed:
Baby girl: 2 lbs 1 oz; measuring right on time, she is growing perfectly!
Baby boy: 2 lbs; measuring 2 days behind sister, growing perfectly too!
Cervix Length: 2.6 cm (normal is greater than 2.5 cm) I am borderline :/

They are both head down with their heads side by side...within inches apart. Baby boy is definitely the most curious of the two. He always looks at the 'camera.' Check it out:

Baby boy posing for the 'camera' with hand up to face

Baby boy perfect profile

Baby girl was pretty shy.  She had her back and neck to the 'camera.'  Maybe she will be my chilled baby girl. 

Hannah

Hannah is thrilled that Santa is coming to town!  She has been quite entertained this week thanks to Lucy Burrows, Audra, Michael, Meli, Janjan, Papaw, Cita, and Aunt Jaclyn.  Also, she and I were able to complete a craft project in my chair.  This is a little table topper for the babies' room.  Hannah LOVES crafts...and decopauge glue.

We have been working in the nursery and it is 75% complete. (Photos to come)  We are borrowing a big rocking recliner from JanJan and Pop so I can go lay in the nursery while everyone works around me.  Luke rearranged the furniture, hung the curtains and patched little nail holes in the walls.  Aunt Katie put the finishing touches on the cribs.  I am still waiting on baskets for the changing table and NEW black armoire (thanks for painting, JanJan and Pop).  I am thrilled to have the hardest part complete.

The babies' got a really cute package in the mail last week from the Carson family.  Hannah opened the package and fell in LOVE!

Two little monkey tobaggans.

I am also looking forward to a small shower that the family has organized on January 9th.  It will be in my home so I will be super comfy in my chair. 


Thank You this week to:
Teresa Kirkham: chicken enchiladas, rice, guacamole, cookies
Luke, Calhouns, penningtons-Texas rolls(duck), fried deer steak...good company! :)
Jaton, Josh, and Sarah - great company, fun Wii party
Donna and Micki- hosting a Santa party! Hannah had a great time!
Laura Currey- lasagna, salad, cheese bread
Ms. Patsy- Christmas snacks
Gran-Red Velvet Cupcakes
Carmen zumaya- posole
Uncle Joe, Aunt Det, Roslyn- Mexican stack, poblano peppers
Cita- chicken casserole, fun pjs and surprises, precious baby clothes,etc
Janjan- dealing with the sick folk, laundry, etc.
Dad-grocery shopping, getting the santa gifts put together, etc.

Thank you most of all to... Luke for being a nurse, cook, maid, sole moneymaker, husband, Santa, and top notch daddy all while managing a fast-paced business!  I know its not easy being a single parent (practically), managing a home and a business.  I am so thankful for YOU! We can do it!  I love you !

Merry Christmas Everyone!  We are so blessed.  Thanks be to GOD !

26 weeks

Anticipation
To help me get through bed rest, I always think of past events/dates in my life that I thought would NEVER happen.  It reminds me that time IS inevitable even though it seems to be creeping along right now.  I decided that I would make a list of the most anticipated events in my life...just for fun!
Events that take a lifetime to reach (or seem that way)
10.Christmas day... especially for 5 year olds
9. First day of Kindergarten
8. Sixteenth Birthday (drivers license...wooohoooo)
7. ALL birthdays until 21  :0)
6. Last day of school (every grade)/first day of summer
5. The day I received my college acceptance letter (I chased down the mailman, literally) AND the day I received my college roommate and dorm assignment (I think the mailman caught on by this point)
4. HS graduation (dear old MPH)
3. Aggie Ring Day ... AND College graduation day! Whooooppp!
2. Wedding day (ALMOST 9 YEARS AGO xoxoxo)
1. The birth of our first baby, Hannah Lucile! (39 WEEKS of easy pregnancy)

These BIG events have come and gone for me and Luke but it is just the beginning of new and exciting events for Hannah and little Baby Andersons.  :)

Now...our next most anticipated event ...
The BIRTHDAY of OUR SECOND BABIES 

Update


My partner in crime....she really likes bed rest!  This is her normal position right below my chair. 

I couldn't resist.  Can you tell? I dont have much to write about today. I am doing OK. No changes. I have two appts. next week so I will have a lot to update.  Some people have requested belly pics....here ya go...

26 weeks

25 weeks

Excited that i can still see my ankles...they haven't swollen yet!

Last weekend, Cita helped with Hannah while Luke worked.  They made this gorgeous ginger bread house and FINISHED my Christmas shopping...yes, FINISHED!  Thank you!

Hannah ate at least 45 pieces of candy.  Can you say, wild child ?



Big THANK YOU to...
Aunt Katie- Taco soup and cornbread, taking care of Hannah at school and after...best TEACHER ever...luv u! 
Kathy and Bro. Chuck Huffman-Chicken and Dumplins, cornbread
Jamie and Andy-lasagna, salad
Tracie Rose-Tortilla soup, apple dumpling, poppycock (I need this recipe. It was all gone before dinner)
Kerri Nichols-Ham and Cheese Pie, fruit
Christy Kerr-Cookies and bread
Mr and Mrs. Carter- Spaghetti, Salad, Bread, Asparagus,Cake
Melissa Mason-Pizza and Cinnamon sticks
Worthie Witherspoon-Pork Tenderloin, Sweet potato casserole, Chick parmesan, Hershels sweet tea. :) 
Ms. Sunny - In-home spa pedicure...ahhhh...
Dad- Lunch, errands, school pick up...etc.
Mom-groceries, lunch, laundry, gift wrapping
Cita and Capt-groceries, errands, school pick-up

We are incredibly blessed to have friends and family that have surrounded us with love and support!   WE could have NEVER made it this far without each of you!  We LOVE you all!




25 weeks!!

YAY !  25 weeks already!  Just 12 weeks to go! We have decided that 12 weeks sounds a lot better than 3 months.  :)  This month is already flying by !!  Hannah has one more week of school before she is out for two weeks. It will be so nice to have her company during the day. Lucy will be babysitting and helping me out so she will be entertained! Also, I may start embroidering...at least I could put a little "E" on the pink clothes.  Then, maybe we will decide between "C" "L" and "W" to embroider the baby boy clothes!  Why are boy names so hard ?? 

Appt Update

I saw the Dr. yesterday and had a pretty good report. The babies looked great and we heard their little hearbeats.  My cervix length has shortened to 2.8 cm.  The last time he checked, it was 3.8 cm.  Luke and I were a little concerned.  He informed us that this was ok and still in the normal range.  Also, baby girl's head was on the cervix which could have caused it to shorten a little during the time of measurement.   He said if the cervix continues to shorten, then we can start steroid shots for the babies.  So, of course, we have a back up plan.

Bed rest update

7 weeks down...and now I am modified bed rest.  This means that I have done such an awesome job that the Dr. is rewarding me for good behavior.  No, not really!  There are not many changes.  I am still making myself continue complete bed rest with the exception of an occasional car ride to EC Brice to pick up Hannah, eating at the table for dinner, and sitting up in my recliner a little more during the day.  I will not be doing chores around the house, walking or standing for extended period of time, or driving.  Yes, this makes me happy!  Every little bit helps.  I was able to eat at the table with Luke, dad, and Hannah last night and I enjoyed sitting up this morning to fix Hannah's hair.  Also, I am looking forward to a short car ride to look at Christmas lights one night this weekend. God is Good !  We are gonna make it! 

I have almost finished our Christmas shopping all from the comfort of my recliner.  Its really fun to get packages every day !  Even though they are mostly for Hannah.

Next Appts.

Growth Sono-Monday, Dec. 20, 8:00am
Dr Mason - Tuesday, Dec. 21, 8:30am

Thank you this week to :
Dad-steaks, potatoes, salad, groceries, errands, etc...etc...etc., Chilis dinner :) Luv u!
Jacob and Brandy Ainsworth-Chicken and potato dish, peas, bread, cupcakes,cookies
Gran and Papa-Ham and broccoli casserole, apple salad, bread...we loved the salad!
Audra, Michael, Meli - groceries, sweets, yummy Luigis and good company :0)
Katie, Sara, Audra- helping at the parade and keeping me company on Saturday
Katie, Keres, Ava, George-Taking Hannah to Polar Express!  I owe you...maybe Luke owes Keres for making the trip with 3 babies! We luv yall ! 
Mom-working circles around me in the house, laundry, groceries, organizing the Divas clothes, etc...etc.. :)  Luv u!  (this week, we get to wrap) 
Nikki, Chuck, Cameron, Lucas-Chick and Sausage dish, Chessy green beans, rolls, and coming to visit from Lview...MISS u! 
Dr. and Mrs. Riepe-Chick poppy seed pasta, apple salad, rolls, apple crisp, green bean bundles...i love green bean bundles !

Thank you all for your prayers !  Keep 'em coming!

24 weeks

6 weeks of bedrest down

I think I can do 10 more weeks...uggg... Of course I can !  I am doing ok just A LOT restless and bored.  Of course, it helps that I stay busy most of the day with things like Christmas shopping online, ordering Christmas cards, writing thank you cards, helping to organize Sara's baby shower, etc.  Also, visitors are fun.  However, I just want to get out of my house just to take Hannah to school or pick her up or stroll around Walmart or go out to eat or go to the Christmas parade or ride around to look at Christmas lights.  I can do it though! 

Baby update

At 24 weeks, the babies are viable.  Which only means that if they are born now, there is a small chance that they could be saved.  This would mean lots of NICU time and teeny tiny babies.  So, that is not even an option for me but I feel like I have achieved my first goal or stepping stone.  :)  Now, the next hurdle is 28 weeks, then 30, then 32, then 34 ... then the magical 37 weeks!   Dr. Mason is still optimistic in saying that he will induce at week 37 with the slight possibility of a regular delivery, aka no 'C section.'  :)  I say...lets do it!  I love an optimisitic and smart Doctor ! 

What do I feel like?  100 % normal with a few aches and pains from the recliner and bed.  The babies are super active and practice martial arts all day and night.  I don't have much of an appetite but my strict Dr. Anderson makes sure I take in plenty of calories. 

Next appt: Tuesday, Dec. 7; 8:40 AM

Thanksgiving was great !

This year everyone came to our house to share the day with Luke, Hannah, and I since I couldn't travel.  It meant the world to me that everyone changed their plans so that the 3 of us were not alone.  :)  I have to brag and say that my house was beautiful even though I didn't lift a finger.   As most of you know, I love working in my home, entertaining, and taking care of my little family.  So it was super hard to lie here and watch everyone work around me.  I did it though and everything turned out great !  I will offer to make the entire meal next year just to repay everyone for all their work.  Ok, I know that is a big offer, maybe we will host a steak dinner after the babies arrive ? 

Katie and Carol decorated the beautiful tables



Ava and Hannah are 'eating' Dr. Pepper with their spoon like soup.  I think this was all they ate.
Who cares about turkey and dressing when you have DP ?



Hannah's first deer (kinda)
Hannah and daddy went hunting on Sunday morning for a poor little doe (legal on T-Day weekend.)  However, they came home with this... She spotted it, first ! 

Christmas decorating

I am happy to say that my tree is up, mantle is decorated, and the house and front porch Christmas lights are on!  Luke and Hannah did such a great job. They may be the official decorators next year...we will then have two more 'helpers.'  All went very smoothly!  The tree is now in our living area so I can enjoy it every day !  Thank you, Luke and Hannah !  The babies and I appreciate your help around the house !  I love you both very much ! 

Thank you for meals this week:

Ratliff family-American casserole, salad, cookies, bread

Sara and Shane Calhoun-Chili and frito pie

My Shreveport bunch and dad-Thanksgiving dinner with dessert and Mimi's rolls :0)

Tammy Foster-Chili, cornbread, praline ice cream bars

Stacy Fitts-Beef Goulash and veggies

Sara- BK lunch with a coke ;)

Josh and Jaton, Trevor, Marley, Blakers-Chilis gift card and a great visit ! 

Thank you for thinking of us !

The Care Calendar website is http://www.carecalendar.org/?cid=55053.  Password is 3984.    

23 weeks

Holy cow! Look what we accomplished this weekend! I say 'we' because it was a group effort. ( yes, even I worked....I hung every piece of clothing in my chair). Katie and I have continuously saved every item of clothing, shoes, hats, bloomers, etc from our babies, Hannah, Ava, George. Needless to say, we had at least 20 tubs to organize with sizes from newborn to 3t. Craziness!

Mom,Katie,Carol and I managed to develop a system so we could organize all these beautiful clothes. We labeled boxes from 3-6 month, 6-9 month, 12 month etc. I put all the 0-3 month clothes on pink and blue hangers.

After !!  Now, baby A and B Anderson are set! Well for now...I am sure a few more things will be purchased. Especially as I remain on bed rest.

Thank you Jan Jan, Cita, Aunt Katie, Gran, Ava, George and Hannah for helping me get the nursery ready!  Also, thanks for staying with me while Luke was out of town.  We owe you BIG TIME ! 

Also, Katie and I just purchased an early Christmas present...embroidery machine! I am so excited! When mommy and daddy decide on names, all the babies' clothes will be monogramed. Now, just need to figure out how I can monogram in the bed...there has to be a way!

Baby update
My doctor appt went well today! It was very short and sweet, but I still got out of the house. My yard is covered with beautiful yellow and red leaves and I have a few roses and mums blooming. Who knew ?? 
Dr. Mason sonogramed the babies. We heard the heartbeats and learned that baby boy is breech for the moment and baby girl is now on the right side. That's what all the chaos has been about...I have two gymnasts in my belly...or two more Hannahs!

Bed rest update
Well, no change! Still the same ole, same ole! I was given a glimpse of hope today though. My bed rest may change from strict to moderate after two weeks. Which just means, eating while sitting up, and maybe a longer shower...

Thanksgiving
We have invited everyone over to our house for t-day! All the Andersons, Sandlins, Fites, my mom, Ralph, Dad, and Jojo. Of course, I cant cook or do anything to prepare but I have lots of helpers. My tables already look beautiful ! This will be our first thanksgiving at home and I am excited! Truthfully, I will not be doing anything but watching everyone work around me. I will be able to lay around and enjoy the company for the day. If you know me, you know i love to entertain so it will be hard to sit back and watch but I don't have a choice. I will make the best of it because I know that next year will be a whole new story! Also, doc said I can sit at the table for lunch! Yay!

We have so much to be thankful for !  I am happy we get to share thanksgiving with both of our families, even though I am 'out of commission.' Thank you everyone for making this happen!  It means a lot to me !


Thank you for meals this week:
Thank you all for taking time to prepare a meal for us!
Carmen Zumaya and Sara Calhoun for a Fab enchilada lunch

Mrs. Margaret Burrows, Mrs. Karen Harmon- roast, potatoes carrots, homemade bread, pea salad, fruit salad, triple layer choc cake, and choc chip cookies (fed us all weekend)

Pam Fite- meatloaf, green beans, mashed taters, butternut squash soup
Jeannie and Todd Jaggers- chicken spagetti, salad, garlic bread

Sherry Fox-cherry dump cake (one of my faves)

Michelle Luck- Yummy wrapped chicken, sweet green beans, rolls, mashed taters

Cita- Tea room lunch
Audra Pennington-Keeping Miss Han all day Tues
Cita, Aunt Katie-Taking Han to see SANTA !

Look how well we eat!

22 week growth scan/sonogram

Yay! I had a fabulous outing yesterday! I had a growth sonogram on both of these babies! Needless to say, I didn't sleep much last night bc I was so excited! At first, there was a bit of confusion to determine what to call the babies in the sonogram report, baby A,B, or C. There are two babies now but we still want to call them baby B and baby C. If you know Luke very well, you know we gotta get this right the first time. Once that was figured out, we proceeded without any problems.

Baby girl- weighs 1 lb. 1 oz; measuring 3 days ahead, she is head down,
Baby boy- weighs exactly 1 lb.; measuring right on time, he is head down.

Both of their heads are together (so they can chat). Their feet constantly kick my belly button area and rib cage. They are about 11 inches long. All looks perfect!

Baby girl's hands



Baby Girl checking out what all the 'buzz' is about



Baby boy parts !!

Baby boy being shy with hands over eyes

Bed rest update
So, how am I really doing?  Do I get terribly bored ? Yes!  Is it hard being 100% dependent on everyone else? YES !   Do I hate staying in the house everyday ?  YES! Am I gonna make it ?  YES I will make it!  
I have a routine and I stay busy believe it or not.  I have visitors throughout the day like dad brings me coffee, mail, groceries, and feeds the dog; Sara comes to visit at lunch; Luke comes home at lunch,  Mom does odds and ends around the house a fews days a week; Cita comes by at lunch or afterschool a few days a week; Lupe comes to clean and tornados through the house;  AND I have friends in and out all the time !  I love visitors ! 
 I am a little (no, A LOT) nervous about how my body will act after all of this but I have Audra, Sara, and the gym...so get ready girls !  

All of this bed rest business will be history in March and I am planning summer trips already.  I think we will plan on the beach in May to kick off the summer!  The babies will LOVE the beach ! Hannah has LOTS to teach them!

Thank you this week to:
Sara and Shane- loaded nachos and a movie; lunch and virgin mimosas, Thank you Sara for being the best preggo partner EVER!
Luke- grilled steaks, potatoes, salad...yummy!
Dr. and Melissa Mason, Tracie Rose- delish baked ham, salad, green beans, mac and cheese(Hannahs fav) angel food cake and fruit!
Judi and John Howell-fried chicken, potato salad, mac salad, deviled eggs, pie
Gran and Papa-chicken, mac and cheese, beans, corn, pecan pie
Mrs. Ellerman-oatmeal cookies
Linda Atkinson-pork tenderloin, sweet green beans, potatoes, carrots, brownies
Marla Sheets- Laura's Cheesecake taco salad, cookies....great to catch up!

Also, a few people have asked about the Care Calendar.  http://www.carecalendar.org/?cid=55053
Login: 55053
Password:3984
This has been A HUGE blessing!

Prayers are working! Thank you all for your love and support! God is good!   These babies need names...I will share next week, if we can figure out baby boy's name.

Hannah's 1st (and last) Cheer Competition...for this year

Of course, Hannah LOVED the cheer competition and I think Jan Jan and Cita had a fun day, too.  Thank goodness her little team is a 'show team' so they ALL got a trophy.  She was THRILLED !  Plus, Jan Jan and Cita bought her prizes.  :) 

Jan Jan and Cita-Thank you a MILLION for taking Miss Han to the competition ! 

Katie and Sara-Thank you for keeping me company !  :)  I enjoyed the virgin mimosas in my lounge chair on the patio. 

Hannah, Ramsie, Abbie Kate

YAY !  I think we LOVE to CHEER ! 

21 week check-up

Bedrest- 22 days down
I got to leave the house today ! I noticed a lot of things that I used to see daily that I never took the time to appreciate.  I saw the leaves changing on all the trees in my yard and neighborhood (i couldnt help but think that ALL of those leaves would eventually fall but it won't be my problem this year).  The red and yellow trees are so beautiful.  It is amazing that some people are putting out their Christmas lights, etc.  Still a little early for me but nice to see that Christmas is right around the corner.

 I was actually nervous to travel the 3 miles to the dr office.  I still have stamina but I was unsure how my body would react to being 'up' that long.  We parked close (illegal in the handicap space) and Luke wheeled me in to Dr. Mason's office.  As usual, the nurses got me right in to see the doc.   We had a sonogram of the babies and they barely stopped moving long enough for the doc to measure heartbeats.  Eventually, we heard strong beating hearts and saw healthy, very active, babies.   My cervix length has not changed in two weeks so this was very reasurring...we are doing good. :)   I also got my hydroxyprogesterone shot.   I will remain on bedrest with bathroom privileges....why not, its working. 

Thank you for meals this week :

Judi and John Howell-Lasagna Casserole, Garlic bread, Salad, Choc Sheet Cake (w/o nuts...my all time FAV)
Chessy Taylor- Roast, Potatoes, Peas, Cornbread,Carrots, Pecan Pie (yumyum)
Nancy Lloyd-Chick Salad and Tort Soup
JanJan-Chick Pot pie
Sara-Subway for lunch

Next Appt:
Wednesday, Nov. 17, 8:30AM
Growth Sonogram, Open Imaging, MP

Tuesday, Nov 23, 8:50 AM
Dr. Mason

Hannah Update:
This week, Hannah is so excited about her FIRST cheer competition PLUS she gets to spend the night with Captain and Cita PLUS she gets to ride to the competition with JanJan and Cita.  :)  Also, she and daddy are perfecting their morning and evening routine.  They are both doing JUST FINE.  MY favorite time of day is after bathtime.  She crawls up in my bed and we read, talk about the day, or watch a movie.  Sometimes, she can feel the babies move and she thinks this is SUPER COOL.  I think she is adjusting very well.  It is really a good transition time for her before the babies come. 

 Next week, I will have pics of the little cheerleader in FULL glitter cheer make-up.  :) 

Thank you for all the prayers and support.  Please keep the prayers coming! 
Much love, Tasa

Almost 21 weeks ...

Bed REST...19 days down
So, I think I AM GONNA MAKE IT !  I am feeling a lot more positive about this pregnancy, even more than last week.  Every week I feel a little more confident. Physically, I am still feeling really good with no cramping or any other pain.  I would LOVE to get out of my chair just to help Hannah get dressed, pack her lunch, fix my own meal, or sit on my porch.   However, who can complain when EVERY meal is hand delivered on a 'platter,' someone does ALL my laundry, ironing, grocery shopping, cooking, errands, and cleaning. 

Also, Hannah has a full time 'keeper' that gives her 100 % of their attention after school and on the weekends (usually a grandparent/aunt/cousin).   Hannah can not stay home alone with me...she would burn down the house, no doubt.   Of course, daddy takes care of both of us in the evening by making sure we are fed and bathed before bed, gives my shot, does laundry, gets the backpack ready for the next day, etc.  Then in the morning, daddy dresses the little diva,  dresses me (i'm no longer a diva, much more low maintenance), makes our breakfast, gives my shot, gets me situated for the day then takes Hannah to school.   Since we live in the same town with most of our close family, Hannah gets to play with different cousins and friends every weekend and she is truly loving life.  Needless to say, Hannah has NOT missed a 'beat.'  She has her first cheer competition this weekend in Denton.  Cita and Jan Jan are taking her for the day.  She is SO EXCITED and she gets to go with TWO grandmas.  :) 

Rewind to the past two weekends...I have decided weekends are fun bc I have lots of FABULOUS company BUT it is so hard to see them come and go when I am stuck in the house.  The weather has been beautiful and makes me want to work/play in my yard, go shopping, or sit by a bonfire. 

Last weekend, Halloween, Hannah had her first slumber party with "Gram Pam," "Daddy George" and Ava at the Fites house in HS. Pam had the evening planned out with lots of crafts and baking.  Katie and Carol spent most of Saturday with me since Luke had to work.   Katie re-organized my closet and drawers so my maternity clothes can be easily found (mainly for Luke).   Also, she picked out Hannah's clothes for the school week which is a HUGE help for my (color blind) husband.   Thank you Katie and Carol for helping with all the Halloween 'to dos' and chores around my house.  MUCH APPRECIATED by ALL THREE of us !  Here's Jasmine...(Luke may be the new photographer in the family. I love these pics.)

This past weekend, Aunt Jojo, Jamie, Chloe, and mom came to babysit me and Hannah (and work circles around me all weekend).  Mom did all my odds and ends around the house like water plants, put up Halloween decorations, cleaned out fridge, grocery shopped, organized Hannah's closet (yes, this has to be done weekly, she is so spoiled rotten with clothes and SHOES).  Saturday, Jamie and Jojo took the girls to Walmart for more groceries and brought home Randy's burgers.  Also, they got Hannah ready for the school week, washed every stitch of laundry, cleaned bathrooms, and I think Jojo even cleaned light fixtures. My house is MUCH cleaner than normal.  :)    Papaw took the girls back to Walmart bc we had an earring emergency and both girls came home with new earrings!  Thanks Pap !  Hannah and Chloe put a puzzle together for the nursery and Jamie decopaged it for me...so cute !  Thank you Jojo, Jamie, Chloe, and mom for a great weekend ! 

CareCalendar.org

We have had a AMAZING group of friends and family bring food and even more sign up through November and most of December.  I can't even express how HELPFUL this has been for all 3 of us!  It is just such a BLESSING! I know it makes Luke's life a million times easier...plus we are eating healthy food instead of take out. 

Thank you for meals last week:

Sara and Shane Calhoun-Chicken and Dumplins and a fun movie.
Grammy Jojo-Chicken Stew, cornbread and Halloween cookies
Suzan Garret-Fiesta Shrimp, Rice, Baked rolls, and Yummy cake
Jillian Cooper-Chicken Enchiladas, Beans, rice, queso
Amy Schmitt and Leah-El Chicos
Lupe Heim - Posole, rice, fresh salsa
Nancy Mays- Shrimp Gumbo
Amy Jones-Ham and Cheese Sammies
Dad-Laura's cheesecake breads and fudge
Cita- Chicken and dressing, corn, green bean casserole, pintos
Jamie Cody- tacos for lunch
Audra Pennington - tea room for lunch

Gran and Papa-Fresh flowers
Amanda and Jack-Cookie Bouquet and Mary Kay lotions
Farmington gang-Beautiful flowers

We are ALL eating VERY well.  The babies are getting lots of good nutrition, too. :)  I plan to keep them growing and growing as I lay here and 'grow.'

Next Dr. Appt. - Thursday, Nov. 11th; 9:00 AM
 I get to leave my house for the FIRST time in 2 weeks!

Day 10 bedrest .....

In 10 days, I've learned that....
1.  Luke is great at household chores, being a nurse, picking out all of our clothes, re-stocking my 'camp', running errands, etc.
2.  my new iPad is fabulous and almost essential
3.  washing hands under running water is so much better than hand sanitizer
4.  a daily shower is a luxury
5.  make-up can make life a little better
6.  a high ponytail is the new hairdo for 3 months
7.  TV is nice for noise but thats about it
8.  Hannah can bathe and dress herself
9.  People love to visit and bring food : )
10.  I can fix my hair and Hannah's hair in the bed
11.  I can take a 4 min shower when Luke is timing me  
12.  We have the greatest support system, I already knew it though.

19 weeks - Mt. Pleasant Hospital Visit

*** I also updated the 18 week appt with all the information from Plano Presby Hospital Visit.  First, you might want to read that post.  It is below this post.*** 

WOW!  What an amazing and unexpected week!  I will try to catch up from Saturday (Oct. 23).

After coming home from Plano Presby, we knew that I had to start labor on my own before Dr. Mason/Dr.Slovak could try to save baby B & C. I was very dilated and it was 'inevitable'.  I started contracting on my own on Saturday morning (5 AM). I called Dr. Slovak on her cell at 5:20 AM.  She was at the hospital and ready for me.  (Dr. Mason was out of town at a conference until Monday so Dr. Slovak was given all my information and knew 'the plan').   By 6:10 AM, Baby A was delivered at 18 1/2 weeks and was not viable.  All of this happened very quickly and in a sterile environment, which was the best case scenario.   Baby B and baby C still have an undisturbed sack.  We immediately had a sonogram.   Baby B and baby C have great little heartbeats.  Ok...so whats next? ...wait again...to make sure I don't get an infection or continue contracting.  I had a lot of visitors on Saturday to pass the time.  Hannah came to visit and was not affected at all by the 'hospital' environment.  She had a sleepover at the Penningtons and greatly enjoyed it !  Luke stayed with me at the hospital. 

Sunday, Oct. 24- Still in upside down position, in hospital bed with LOTS of antibiotic IVs.  Things still look good and my cervix began closing on its own...miracle.   First step to success !  Dr. Slovak came in Sunday evening to check everything and we were on track for an 'emergency' cerclage on Monday morning.  I had no pain other than my neck and shoulders from the 'trendellenberg' position.  Also, we had emergency tornado warnings and room evacuations...fun in the bed, upside down !  Jamie Carson came to spend the night.  Luke and Hannah had fun at home, trying to get back in a routine before the week. 

Monday, Oct. 25- Dr. Mason was back in town and came in early to check my status. Things still look great!  Emergency cerclage set for 9 AM.    Dr. Mason and Dr. Slovak performed cerclage and it went well.  No problems.  That evening, Drs Mason and Slovak, Melissa Mason, Teresa, mom, Luke, Carol were all there to view the success of the cerclage on the sonogram.  It was a very exciting time !  Cervix was closed and thick...which is what we want for two healthy babies.  We saw the babies kick around and heard the heartbeats.  Jan Jan spent the night.  Luke and Hannah went to Two Senoritas and enjoyed another night in my big bed.  :) 

Tuesday, Oct. 26- Still in hospital on antibiotics. Dr. Mason came in early and saw the babies on the sono.  We heard heartbeats.  Still no infection.  I rested most of the day and enjoyed the relief of a successful cerclage.  Still on strict bedrest with bathroom priveleges.  Hannah and Dad came to visit right after school.  Hannah was wild in the hospital and still adjusting to the excitement of lots of attention.  Carol spent the night with me and Gran and Papa Sandlin brought dinner to Hannah and Luke.  

Wednesday, Oct 27 (19 weeks)  - Released from hospital.  Cervical length at a 3.5 (normal is around 2-3) This is NOT dilation, this is cervical thickness and it is normal for a 19 week pregnancy.  No infection.  Heparin shots -twice daily to prevent blood clots, Hydroxyprogesterone to help with preterm labor issues.  So...what now ?  Home bedrest with bathroom priveleges and short 4 min shower.   I LOVE being home.  My windows are open and meals are scheduled through the second week in NOV.    Papa delivered wheelchair and Captain Rick is reconfiguring my shower.  Mom and Carol have helped around my house to establish my 'camp.'  Hannah will be home tonight and ready for "Go Fish" and cuddling in my bed.  I am in recliner (very reclined) during the day and my bed at night.  God is GOOD!  I know that there are still risk so it is a day-day situation with 'guarded optimism' and lots of prayers. 

 THANK you family and friends for your love and support, etc. etc....: 

Luke- for being the BEST supporter and daddy ever !  For being positive and being super strict with my daily regimen.

Jan Jan, Cita, Dad, Captain, Katie, Keres, Gran, Papa- ENDLESS THANKS-to each of you

Dr. Slovak, Dr. Mason, and Dr. Koster- for your honesty and expertise, and  willingness to take a chance with my situation.   I know each of you were handpicked to be a part our life. 

Jamie Carson, Sarah, Sara, Audra, Amy, Jaton, Josh, Shane, Jake, Ralph, Charles, Peggy, Ms. Patsy, Amanda, Nikki, Kasi, Jamie Cody, Judi, Ratliff family, Rev. Becky Hand, Bro. Chuck Huffman, Tennison Church Family, Uncle Joe, Aunt Det, Donna and Micki Broach, 20th Century Club, Julie, Kerri, Laura, Leah, Shauna, Brett, Ms. Lupe, all my aunts and uncles, family and friends ...for keeping me positive

I am going to be a great patient and listen to my body...and Drs.

18 week checkup-Plano Presby Hospital Visit

Back dated to Friday - October 22, 2010

I know lots of people have lots of unanswered questions about my health and health of the babies'.   We are all home however, my cervix is dilated to a 4.5.  It looks like this started happening some time at the beginning of this week.  (Background info – A month ago, I changed my appt. with my perinatologist from Oct. 28 to Oct. 21. Then the drs office bumped it up one day to Oct. 20....in hindsight, this is the FIRST proof of God's presence in all of this.) 

***The next section may be graphic and more than you would like to know. So stop reading and know that I am ok***

At my 18 week check up with perinatologist, Dr. Koster, I was dilated to a 2.5.  We knew things had gone drastically wrong, “huge setback” as she said.   We were extremely shocked since I was not dilated at the 16 week checkup.  We decided to stay in the hospital overnight to watch for contractions and allow my body to ‘retract’ the membranes that were already lost.  We had a 50/50 chance of saving the babies.   I stayed in Plano Presby Wed. night with my feet in air, head to the ground, took IV fluids, antibiotic, etc. etc.  Thursday morning, Dr. Koster came back in to check my cervix.  I was still dilated to a 2.5 but fluid membranes were looking better.  So, we scheduled emergency cerclage Thursday afternoon.  My mom, Carol, my dad, Sarah, and Luke were all there for the surgery.   We found out immediately after surgery that it didn’t work.  Meaning that I had dilated to a 4.5 within the day and the membranes were protruding too far to make a ‘stitch.’  (Sorry for the terminology or lack thereof.)   So, what are my choices?  Lay in the hospital bed, far away from home and wait on preterm labor?  or go home and wait on delivery?  Mom, Carol, Dad, Luke and I all made the choice to come home.  

***

More background info- Dr. Mason is my OB in MP and he is a VERY skilled OB…meaning he can handle my labor and delivery as well as anyone in Plano.  (Perinatologists like Dr. Koster, handle high risk pregnancies.  They are not as skilled in delivery and Dr. Koster was the first to share that with us.)

With that said, Dr. Mason, called this morning to let me know a small bit of good news.   When I labor, he may be able to save baby b and baby c.   He performed this procedure in residency.  There are a lot of risks with a very small possibility of success.  However, he will try his best. 

Today, we came home from Plano and I am propped up in my recliner (still upside down-Thank you, Rick Anderson, for the ingenuity).  Luke is resting and mom is cooking dinner.  Hannah will be home from school soon and I am content.    We welcome visitors but I want to be with Hannah tonight.  So, please text me if you plan to come by over the weekend.  My house is a happy place for all of us.  So, more smiling faces are welcome.    : ) 

Truly, I have had a lot of proof of God’s presence within the week and I know that I am sitting in His palm right now.  My emotions are drained but I am at peace.  Luke and I trust both of our doctors 100%.  We don’t plan to interfere with God’s will.  He has a definite plan for us.  All of you know that by now. 

I know each of you have expressed your love and concern and we appreciate it more than you know.  Keep the prayers coming. 

I love you all !  Tasa

16 Week Appointment

Whew...16 weeks already and almost half-way there !  Our personal goal is 35 weeks to delivery, about the middle of February, with only home bedrest.  My perinatologist, Dr. Koster, said this is possible and happens a lot these days.  So...we will see.   I have faith in the Lord and both of my doctors.  I know we will be taken care of.  I am so thankful for smart doctors. 

OK-here's the newest !!  All three babies look perfect. We heard all 3 heartbeats and saw all 3 babies doing flips in my belly.  The umbilical cords look 'beautiful' in case you were wondering.  Dr. Mason said that about 5 times so I guess they look really good.  We even saw Baby C try to grasp the cord.   YES.... we saw some 'extra' boy parts !  Since I am only 16 weeks, this could change due to position of baby, etc. but...here is what we saw after 45 minutes of searching (Gotta love Dr. Mason) :

Baby A- Boy 99% Sure;  Luke saw the 'parts' first, then Dr. Mason confirmed. 
Baby B - Girl 50 % Sure....still very uncertain;  Doc thinks girl but baby didn't cooperate
Baby C-Boy 75% Sure...again didn't cooperate very well; but the picture says boy

We love to watch the babies go wild in my belly. To see that they all look healthy is such a JOY.  I still feel really good; however, I am getting bigger by the minute.  Interesting fact: Belly is measuring 24 weeks and I am only 16 weeks...but its a good thing. 

I dont have an appetite but I manage to eat, of course.  I am starting to wake up at 3 or 4AM and I have the hardest time getting back to sleep.  Why does that always happen during pregnancy ? Then, when the baby(ies) get here is dreadful to wake up during the night. 

Next Appointment: Anatomic Sonogram and tour of hospital, Thursday, Oct. 21st.  All genders will be confirmed. 

Hannah News:  Hannah is doing great in Kindergarten.  She is learning so much.  I continue to be impressed by her knowledge and memory.  She is blessed with her daddy's memory of seeing/hearing things one time and remembering forever. 

Hannah performed at the fair on Saturday for a total of 39 seconds.  She did great for her first performance.  I will save the picture/video posting until we go to big competition in November. 

A BIG THANK YOU to all our family and friends for lifting us up in prayer.  I can truly feel your love and support. It will be a fun and exciting journey for all of us and I am thankful for your interest. 

My singing 5 year old

I finally got Hannah to sing her 'song' to the camera.  I know she probably won't ever win American Idol but she does a good job of remembering the song. :)  

I wish she would stay 5 forever !!